This was me for a very long time and still a little bit me even as I have grown older. I remember as a child I always kept to myself and even as an adult I still have the phobia of speaking in public (still working on this). I am introvert who gradually found her voice.
It wasn’t so long ago that being an introvert became all the rage thanks to geek shows and other introverts who were willing to make their voices heard (I see you!). Introverts have come a long way and are more understood than ever before. Having said that, there is a new generation that ought to be told they are okay to be who they are. The conversation needs to keep going. For me, I still need reminding and that is part of the reason I started a blog.
I have noticed that introverts (whatever type variations) for the most part seem to be highly creative people who try to express themselves and can also be easily misunderstood. In my experience also, I see that it’s the loudest girl/boy who gets the most attention. We all know that one colleague who talks louder than everyone and is given the best projects as a reward.
I have written some ways that introverts can find their voice and be creative without giving up on who you are
Be yourself
It’s easy to want to be like others. The internet is full of bits of advice to get out more, do this to be more likable, fake it until you make it. I personally found that after a while you get burnt out from trying so hard and get even more discouraged. What I have found that help is to take baby steps towards the direction you need to go while still being your most authentic self. Remember there isn’t one like you in the world so don’t be hard so on yourself. Recognize that however small progress you are making is a step in the right direction
Look for avenues to express your creativity
Knowing who you are and what you stand for is one of the best things that could happen to anyone. One of the best ways to do this is by doing a ton of things that you like, especially at that initial stage where you are trying to figure out what you love and what your passions may be. Try a ton of activities even those outside of your comfort zone. You may be surprise to discover you are passionate about something you least expected to be.
Realize that it may take time to find that one thing you are meant to do
Being the GOAT version of yourself can and does take time. The average person takes years to discover what they want to become in life or what their passions are. Even when you try a ton of things in figuring out your passion, it may still take a while before you feel comfortable in your life’s path. But keep at it and I can bet you everyone who keeps asking, finds. This takes us to the last point below.
Constantly ask yourself what it is you like and do not be afraid to change down the road
I am an introvert by nature and my default reaction is to hang out by myself (this is my default reaction to any invitation to go out lol). Check out this link on how what helped me How to get more out of life Over the years I have worked hard to really know what I wanted. I know I enjoy thinking challenging thoughts and trying to figure the meaning of life, finding ways to simplify my life and follow my passion for managing projects. I was constantly asking myself what I wanted and what my passion was. One day I had an idea for this blog and so far, I am enjoying it. So, keep at it guys, never give up in finding your inner creativity, those who seek must surely find.
What works for you guys?
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